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Wednesday, August 27, 2008

My Jerusalem Connection

I have been spending the last few days transcribing the 1855 census commissioned by Sir Moses Montefiore. I responded to a call for volunteers to help the Israel Genealogical Society digitize the information contained on microfiche in the National Library at the Hebrew University in Jerusalem. I received scans of the microfiche and an Excel sheet on which to record the information as I decipher it. It's slow work but I am really excited about doing it.
I requested and was given the records of the Kollel* Volhynia in Jerusalem. The reason is the grave in the photograph on the left.
The grave is located on the Mt. of Olives in Jerusalem and the man buried there is my great-great-great grandfather (I mean my mother's mother's mother's father's father - got it?). His name was Yisrael Avraham Dincin and he was buried in the winter of 1895 in the Kollel Volhynia section of the cemetary.
One day in the spring of 1949 great aunt Chava Dincin Barbash came to visit my mother and her newborn daughter (me). I suppose the conversation revolved around news and family. Meema (aunt in Yiddish) Chava mentioned that she had a childhood memory of going to bid farewell to her grandparents who had married off the last of their children and were off to Eretz Yisroel to live out the rest of their lives and be buried in the holy earth. My mother told me this story when I was a girl and it was always in my thoughts but we never believed we would know anything more about it.
In a completely random conversation about ancestors a neighbor of mine mentioned that her family had known that a grandfather was buried on Mt. of Olives and after seeing a news story about the mapping of the cemetary they were able to find his grave. I took the number of the burial society she had called. They had no one with the surname Dincin (or Keteroff, which was Chava's mother's maiden name and the subjcet of a whole different search - remind me to tell you about that sometime) and I was, of course, disappointed. Then the man on the line asked me where my ancestor was from and when I replied Ukraine he suggested I try the Kollel Volhynia burial society. I called them and a very patient young man (at least he sounded young on the phone) found a listing for Yisrael Avraham Dincin! I was so excited, I cried.
In the summer of 1999 with a map provided by the burial society and a cell phone (borrowed from my daughter because in those 'olden days' most of us still didn't have cell phones) my mother and I took a taxi up to the Mt. of Olives and found and photographed the grave.
Aside from having another leaf on my family tree this particular discovery is even more meaningful for me because it represents the yearning for Jerusalem that was significant long ago in our family. My great-great-great grandfather and his wife felt the same pull to be close to our roots, to our heritage, to the land where the temple stood, the land where Jews belong.
I am not alone.

*in this case kollel means community or congregation and not the modern meaning of paid study group
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Friday, August 22, 2008

Jewish Bloggers Get Together in Jerusalem!

Well, I made it to the JBloggers conference and was soooo glad I did. I sat with Batya and Yisrael, folks who I have known since keyboarding was called typing and electric typewriters were an exciting innovation in office machinery. Yes kinderlach, back in the days when people who made aliya from the US were verrrry ideological even blonged to Zionist youth movements , you know, before post-Zionism.

It was a fascinating mix of people. I was especially pleased to meet Gila of My Shrapnel who is an amazing young woman. She and The Sandman (who I saw but did not get to talk to although I would have liked to tell him that I enjoy reading his blog) both don't think their blogging is particularly Jewish, aliya oriented or even Zionist (the way we used to mean it). Well guys, that's exactly what's so great about it. Once upon a time you really had to be crazy - or well maybe just a little bit obsessed or ideological - to make aliya and encourage others. Not anymore, really sane normal intelligent empolyable people move to Israel and live here. Year after year.

Of course there were plenty of right wingers religeous folks settlers etc there to justify the kvetching before hand. I was especially happy to meet Rivka, Rafi, West Bank Mama, Chayyei Sara, and lots more wonderful people as well as the more famous bloggers who partcipated in the panels.

Rabbi Gil Student of Hirhurim began with some words of Tora which I thought were appropriate although there were some grumblers. There was someone from something called jewlicious ?which is not aimed at me or my likes. Well, good luck to a very personable young man and his friends.

I'm not sure why Bibi was relevant to this particular forum. He spoke well but in view of the fact that the bloggers had to keep it very short there was something disproportionate about the entire hour he took up.
Frum Satire turned out to be even funnier in person than on YouTube.

Lots was said about agendas and my dear friend Batya has one too. Hers involves roping innocent bloggers into hosting the KCC and guess who volunteered to do that for September?

Shabbat Shalom!

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Olympic Alternative

The Rebbetzin's Husband: has done a lovely job. Lots to read while you are/not watching the Olympics.

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Parallel Worlds

This is #1 grandson and this video was made because he was so proud of having learned to dive into the pool head first. Well, how can Savta share in this achievement if she can't come to the pool to witness it? I suggested perhaps coming and looking in from the entrance. No good. Woman just aren't allowed. OK, I said, you'll take my camera and someone will photograph you diving into the pool. And so it was...

At his age (almost 7) I could take his dad down to the Kinneret (we lived in Ramat Hagolan at the time) and find a spot for the whole family to sit under a tree and play in the water. Sometimes we organized a bus and mothers and their kids all went down to swim in the Kinneret.

I am sad because my grandson is growing up in an environment where girls and boys (and of course men and women) live in increasingly separate environments. Two years ago his kindergarten and (also his sister's kindergarten) marked Friday by having a 'kabalat shabbat' with an 'abba' and 'ima'. The abba made kiddush and the ima lit candles. No more. The kindergartens are now single gendered.

So, although there is a nice shady picnic area adjacent to the pool in Mitzpe Ramon, I can not come, fully clothed, and watch my grandson dive into the pool. If his dad is away doing reserve duty (as he was for most of July) he can't go swimming. Dads can't teach their little girls to swim. How do they play 'house' in these kindergartens?

It isn't that I question the need for modest dress and behavior. I know that these are important concepts. But all of us, old and young, men and women should be developing tools and patterns for living and working together when we can. Cutting ourselves off from each other cuts off possibilities for growth and development.

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